| Location | Darwen |
| Age | 6 years |
| Cause of Death | Asthma Attack |
| Date of Birth | 22/09/1989 |
| Date of Death | 30/08/1996 |
| Visitors | 1,158 since 15/11/2008 |
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Adam Joseph was diagnosed wih asthma at the age of 2 years. He was always a bright little boy with a twinkle in his eyes I doubt anyone who knew him will ever forget.
His life, although brief, was colourful, active, filled with fun and above all will never be forgotten.
He liked egg and chips for tea, Lego bricks were his favourite playthings, his favourite colour was yellow and you could say he was just like any other little boy. But he wasn't. He was my brother, the only person in this life that will ever know me as well as myself. I'm grateful for the short time we had him on Earth and I know that he's the brightest star in the sky when every night falls.
On the 30th August 1996, he fell asleep suddenly in the arms of our Mum and Dad. It wasnt ever to be expected.
Life has changed somewhat from that day 12 years ago, he has a brother (who was born 2 months after he died) and a sister who weren't ever lucky enough to meet their big brother and know how special he was like I did.
My own little girl will one day be told that she has the most amazing uncle watching over her as an angel, as I'm sure he watches over everyone he knew and loved.
If you knew my little brother, please use this site to share the memories and laughter we had with him.
IF LOVE COULD HAVE SAVED HIM IT WOULD HAVE.
A BIG THANK YOU TO EVERYONE WHO LIGHTS A CANDLE FOR ADAM, IT'S A GREAT COMFORT TO KNOW THAT OTHERS STOP AND THINK FOR A MINUTE BEFORE LIFE MOVES ON.
I am thinking of your family today as they think more of the time they lost you although I know in my heart they think of it most days!
I lost my sister, aged 11 to an acute asthma attack so I do understand how your family feel!
All my love to your family. xxxx
Dear little bro,
It's been very nearly 15 years since u left us to join the other angels in heaven. Time makes the pain a little bit more bearable each year but I guess that's only because I'm getting closer each year to seeing u again.
Erin May had a cracking 5th birthday yesterday, her little face lit up with excitement when she saw all her presents and she loved every minute of her party! I'm saying thanks for ur gift of sunshine and lovely weather, u must have sent it from heaven as it had done nothing but rain all week so I know it must have been u!
Alas from a great high comes a great low. Grandad was taken ill this morning, we are all in shock and it was completely unexpected. He wasn't ill or anything. U know Grandad, he loves playing with his grandkids and will do anything for any of us. I guess I'm asking u to stay with him tonight and look after him, Grandma is very upset as is Auntie Laura, Leon and the rest of us. I know you and all the other angels from our family watch over us constantly, please little bro, make him better. Give him any strength he needs and make sure he knows how much we all love him.
A nice lady once told me that if love could have saved you it would have done, I'm asking now to please let our love save Grandad, I only wish we could have had that wish granted on the night you left us. It's going to be one very long night and I guess I'll have to stay strong for everyone, Mum has been doing it all day but she too needs someone to look after her. I know Wayne will help her a lot, I know you would have loved him, he's very much a family man and you can see how happy Mum and him are. I really miss you little bro yet I know part of the reason you had to go was because you had the more important job of watching over us all as an angel. I love you loads Ads, always have, always will. My gorgeous little bro xxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
Hi little bro!
It was ur 21st birthday on the 22nd :-D HAPPY BIRTHDAY!!!!!
Hope u got the balloons we set off, u were probably looking down at me and Auntie Laura trying to get them in and out of the car, it was hilarious!
I know I don't need to write a lot here today, I've been talking to u a lot recently. I think Auntie Laura and Mum have too. Some things are looking up, others are still the same. Some days we barely have strength to carry on with it all. Today isn't so bad :-D
Dad had a new baby, a little boy named Dale. I find it quite hilarious that she named the child that especially as we know he doesn't even like his own name! As if there's another one of them around! Oh well, he made his bed he'll have to lie in it.
I'm still angry tho bro. Angry at the way our family has been treated by others and yet even tho Karma has bitten them it doesn't make life any better for us. One day maybe we can all look back on these times and smile at the thought that even tho they were hard we all had each other. That's most important don't u think?
Forever in my heart little bro
HAPPY BIRTHDAY ADAM
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Birthday Remembrance
Thinking of you on your birthday Adam
But that is nothing new
For no day dawns and no day ends
Without a thought of you.
We cannot send a birthday card,
Your hand we cannot touch,
But God will take our greetings
To the one we love so much.
HAPPY BIRTHDAY ADAM
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love you take care big hugs to you
and your family that miss you ever
day more then words can say take
care bye for now love from me
Sylvie mommy of Samantha Belanger
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Hi little bro!
I know ur sat watching me write this, it's the only reason I do it. Times are still not good but I know you and the rest of the angels up there are doing your best to guide us and look after us so it's not as hard as it would be if I didn't have faith in you all. I just ask that you give me the strength to bear with life as it is at the min. I think the whole family could do with some. Especially Mum. She was talking of you today, no tears, because we know you don't like to see us cry, but as you can see my eyes are welling just writing this. Don't fret dear bro, it is only because I miss you and because for the first time in a while I could see the pain in Mum's eyes. Life's just not being kind to her right now. She worries a lot and she shouldn't have to. She didn't ask for any of this past few months and she certainly doesn't deserve it. Why do bad things only happen to good people? I know it will all make her an even more beautiful and stronger person in the long run but it doesn't stop me from wanting to go out there and hurt every person that has hurt her because of their selfishness and lies. Then again I'm aware that that would make me as bad as them wouldn't it? I do believe in Karma but seriously, why does it have to take so long?
Please just take extra care of her and everyone in this family right now, we all really need it.
Love you always
Big Sis Rach xxxxxxx
Hi Little Bro!
God I miss you. Life's just getting me down so much and I don't know what to do. It's my birthday in just 3 weeks, I'll be 23! Feel like I'm a lot older though. I wish you were here. I know you're watching but that doesn't make it any easier. I realised the other day it's been 2 years since I spoke to Dad, I really miss him and yet he's still here, near enough around the corner. Why has life dealt us this pack of cards little bro? When is it going to get better? Please give me the strength to start living again, I feel like I just exist and am being tossed about on the waves of life. I've still got Erin to keep me going though. Sometimes I don't understand why you and the rest of the angels gave her to me, she's perfect! I'll just hold my head high and ride the rough for now I suppose but promise me the calmer seas arent too far away. Love you with all my heart, Rach xxx
What kind of place would heaven be with all its streets of gold, if all the souls, that dwell up there like yours and mine, were old? How strange would heaven’s music sound when harps begin to ring, if children were not gathered ‘round to help the angels sing. The children that God sends to us are only just a loan, He knows we need their sunshine to make the house a home. We need the inspiration of a baby’s blessed smile. He doesn’t say they’ve come to stay, just lends them for a while. Sometimes it takes them years to do the work for which they come. Sometimes in just a month or two our Father calls them home. I like to think some souls up there bear not one sinful scar. I love to think of heaven as a place where children are.
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Hey little bro!
It was 13 years since you passed on the other day, god I miss u. Life's going o.k. and I know ur always watching over us.
love always
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moving house 2moz little bro, back to the area we grew up together!
Hope Erin will be just as happy as we were! Always look down on her lil bro, please.
it may be a while til I can write again but u know I love u anyway!
xxxxx
Let this be the start of good times ahead
xxx
Nobody Said
Nobody said it would hurt this much,
to live without you by my side,
Nobody said I couldn't bring you back,
believe me I have tried.
Nobody said it would be so hard,
to carry on throughout the years,
Nobody said I'd fill a sea,
I could easily, with all the tears.
Nobody said life moves on,
but it's never going to be the same,
Nobody said life would seem unreal,
whenever they mention your name.
Nobody said you'd end up being
a star that shines so true,
Nobody said I'd have my own angel,
and that angel dear brother, would be you.
I really hate this time of year bro, it just fills me with tears, so I wrote this for you because tomorrow me and Erin will be tucked up in bed before the bells go off, it's just a reminder of how long it's been.
HAPPY NEW YEAR BABY BROTHER!!!!!
HAPPY NEW YEAR UNCLE ADS!!!!!
Love Always your big sis Rach n 1st ever niece! Erin May xxx
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